Wednesday, July 16, 2014

The virtual world of the internet never forgets.

Virtual relationships are both very different and yet surprisingly similar though using the internet.  There are an amazing amount of bullies and abusers  with the comlenting amount of really kind, cheerful and loving fun to be with virtual friends.

When things get talen to the very basic level though this story the Mixon Benjamin posted in Facebook  as a reply to

"When you stop chasing the worng things, You give the right things a chance ro catch you." 

A Boy proposed his Girl-friend for Marriage..
Girl: Tell me..; who do you love most in this world..?

Boy: You, of course!

Girl: what am I to you?

Boy: The boy thought for a moment and looked intently in her eyes and said

“You are missing part of my heart”.

She smiled, and she accepted his proposal.

After their wedding, the couple had a sweet and happy life for a while. However, the youthful couple began to drift apart due to the busy schedule of life and the never-ending worries of daily problems, their life became difficult.

All the challenges posed by the harsh realities of life began to drift away deir dreams and love for each other. The couple began to have more quarrels and each quarrel became make their relation more worst.

One day, after the quarrel, the girl ran out of the house.

At the opposite side of the road, she shouted,
”You don’t love me...!!!”

The boy hated her childishness and out of impulse, said,

"May be, it was a mistake for us to be together..!!!"

You were never the missing part of my ____!!!”

Suddenly, she turned quiet and stood there for a long, while She regretted what he said... but words spoken cant be taken back.

With tears in her eyes, she went home to pack her things and Before leaving the house, she left a note for him..;

“If I’m really not the missing part of your love, let me go and search for some one who is..… 
It is less painful this way… let us go on our separate ways and search for our own partners…!!”

Five years went by..

He never remarried but he had tried to find out about her life indirectly. She had left the country and was living her dreams.

He use to regret on what he did but never tried to bring her back. In the dark and lonely night, he lit his cigarette and felt the lingering ache in his heart. He couldn’t bring himself to admit that he was missing her.

One day, they finally met, At the airport, He was going away on a business trip. He saw her, She was standing there alone, with just the security door separating them.

She smiled at him gently.

Boy: How are you..?

Girl: I’m fine. How about you.., Have you found your heart’s missing part…?

Boy: No.

Girl: I’ll be flying to New York in the next flight.

Boy: I’ll be back in 2 weeks time. Give me a call when you are back, You know my number, Nothing has changed.

With a smile, she turned around and waved good-bye.
“Good-bye . . .”

Same evening he heard of a plane crash which was headed to New York. He tried to know about her and found that, She died.

Midnight... Once again, he lit his cigarette... And like before, he felt the lingering ache in his heart. He finally knew, she was that missing part that he had carelessly broken...!!!

"Sometimes, people say things out of moments of fury.

We take out our 99% frustrations at our loved ones, And even though we know that we ought to”think twice and act wisely”, we actually don’t do it. Things happen each day, many of which are beyond our control."

Written by Mixon Benjamin as a facebook post

Monday, June 30, 2014

Is this a real reality?

I am starting to through the
use of a digital blog journal

The difference between alternative reality and a real realtiy is what actually?

What does the change challenge actually involve?  Well for me it means ... Do it now... then it is done

Tuesday, June 11, 2013

Tuesday, May 28, 2013

How do small steps bring about large reactions.

"Approaching the line is the first victory of battle. 

 Learn to celebrate your small braveries. 

 They light the way to greater courage."

~ C.L.Wilson [via Lady of Light and Shadows]

What price to openly reveal self?

"Communication is too alarming.

To enter into someone else's life is too frightening.

To disclose the poverty within us is too fearsome a possibility."

~ Harold Pinter, Writing for the Theater, 1962.
 (originally via thethirteenthletter)

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Wednesday, May 08, 2013

"  Success demands


of purpose" .      

~  Vincent Lombardi

Tuesday, May 07, 2013

No one can make you feel inferior 


your consent."

-Eleanor Roosevelt

Saturday, May 04, 2013

"The harder you work, 

the harder it is to surrender."

~ Vince Lombardi.
Do not let someone 

who gave up 

on their dreams 

talk you out of yours.

Wednesday, April 17, 2013

Why is making it to the touch down line for the boss so important?

Trapped again? Are you backed into a corner?  

"Most people give up just when they're about to achieve success. They quit on the one 

yard line. They give up at the last minute of the game, one foot from a winning 

-H. Ross Perot

Sometimes that opportunity comes around a second time by itself.  Bookmarking it does well when you see and are not yet ready to grab the opportunity with both hands.  However before you fire the boss have you a base foundation already under you?

Strong Futures International is just waiting to hear from you.  

This page does have the opportunity of financial gain for both the viewer and the writer.
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Saturday, April 06, 2013

Why target your ideas and targets?

Like a Musician.. One tune at a time.

"Nothing can add more power to your life than concentrating all your energies on a limited set of targets".

~  Nido Qubein

Monday, April 01, 2013

Will you follow me if I was...

 " Build your people and you will build your business.  People will want your approval first and your advice second.  Do both.  A lot.... in that order and you will find that they will like you and willingly follow your suggestions".  

- Jack M. Zufelt

Friday, March 15, 2013

What makes the difference

It's not what you know, it's what you use that makes a difference.

~Zig Ziglar

Monday, March 04, 2013

What is the 'right thing' to do?

"TRUTH: Always do right.  This will gratify some people...

.....and astonish others."

-Authour unknown.

Saturday, March 02, 2013

Why spread a little sunshine.

" There is no investment you can make which will pay you so well as the effort to scatter sunshine and good cheer through your establishment."

~Orison Swett Marden

Who embraces opportunities for rejection?

" You can experience rejection for free - or you can do it for money.  Nobody likes rejection ~ but it is a fact of life in just about every thing you do. In business, deal with it -or stay poor!"

~Jack M. Zufeit.

Please note : on this page is a link designed to make me financially better off.  Care to come along and walk the journey with me?

Monday, February 25, 2013

What is the real value of money?

May I ask what more is there to say".  We are born, grow, earn if we should be so lucky and then what?

Part of the reason I joined am an independent of Strong Futures International is just this.  Through the people I link up with I am making a small difference to those who like a challenge, like having something to get up in the morning for... or to do before they go to bed.  One of the pieces of the action is this 'club'

What ever their motivation ....there is a point to their day.... and money in their bank when they absorb the challenge, learn all about it and make it work for them too.

Check on to Affiliate Marketing - What works for you?
  Read the first post relating to the club

Source: via Susan on Pinterest

Please note:
Other than the Strong Futures international link by the time you have left this page there could have been financial gain occurred.

Saturday, February 23, 2013

Are you sinking or travelling full speed ahead.

" There's no feeling quite like the one you get when you get the truth: You're the captain of the ship called 'you'.  You're setting the course, the speed and you're out there on the bridge, steering."

~Carl Frederick.

Thursday, February 21, 2013

What is the difference between 'best' and 'better'?

Do the best you can until you know better.
Then when you know better, do better

~ Maya Angelou 

What and who are you to rise to the occasion my friend?

Source: via Susan on Pinterest

Are you really going to sit there and state the obvious.

Why not just say 'Thank you '  without looking away, feeling foolish or any of the other 101 ways you have a negating a complement.

Someone has just given you a positive gift of their appreciation for who you are and what has got you to this point. By negating it you are slapping them in their face and letting it be known that they are not worth much in your opinion.

Rise to the occasion  and smile too.

Whats between your ears?

"Today the greatest single source of wealth is between your ears".

~ Brian Tracy

Sunday, January 20, 2013

What to remember when reviewing the big picture

While looking at the big picture remember that    .......................


~ cve4me

Thursday, January 10, 2013

What to act upon now

"A leaders job is to look into the futture and see the organsiation not as it is, but as it can become."  


Monday, January 07, 2013

Why let ageism get hold!

You are never too old to set another goal or dream another dream  

~C.S. Lewis

100% of what is...

4145 (Photo credit: cve4me)

You miss 100% of the shots you never take.

~Wayne Gretzky, Pro -Hockey Player
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Wednesday, January 02, 2013

Why pick on the oranges?

Simple when you check out this tongue in check description of what the orange color means.
Click on the picture and then next one comes up. Six  clicks in and you have the answer
Next associate the color orange with what #wbfof is doing for the farmers you will have your answer.

Tuesday, January 01, 2013

How to have a feel for things!

If love is blind then why is lingerie so popular?

How to have a feel for things!

If love is bind then why is lingerie so popular?

How to have a feel for things!

If love is bind then why is lingerie so popular?

1 easy leap of faith to get there!

The achievement of your goal is assured the moment you commit yourself to it.

~Mark R. Douglas

How to make sure I win!

I do not have to make excuses for what I do here.  If anything I say makes someone smile or helps them find their own voice, I win.

Which 1 word description of you is it?

If you were in the dictionary under ONE word that you think would best fit you, what would that world be?

! good reason for love in your heart

Keep Love in your Heart.

A life without Love is like a sunless garden where the flowers are dead!

What is the difference between a boss and a leader:

The difference between a boss and a leader:
The boss says "go"
 The leader says "Let's go"!

~ E. M. Kelly

Thursday, December 13, 2012

Why does success equal zeal?

"Experience shows that success is due less to ability than to zeal.  The winner is he who gives himself to his work, body and soul."

~ Charles Buxton.

Tuesday, December 11, 2012

One obsitcle or a few?

"Obstacles are like wild animals.  They are cowards but they will bluff you if they can.  If they see you are afraid of them... they are liable to spring upon you;  but if you look them squarely in the eye, they will slink out of sight."

~Orison Swett Marden

Saturday, December 08, 2012

Why will you find the way?

I If you really want something, and really work hard, and take advantage of opportunities, and never give up, you will find a way."

~Jane Goodall, Antropologist.

Tuesday, December 04, 2012

How do you know if you are alive in business?...

Please tweet it

Always having one to review,  something else on the go
 and a few along the pipe line in planning
"I was once asked if a big business man ever reached his objectives.  I replied that if a man ever reached his objectives he was not a big business man."

~  Charles M Schwab.

Sunday, December 02, 2012

How to know when to glow... turn on the light beam and focus

Even when it is dark some things really glow
 with a little light and faith
" The only thing that stands between a man and what he wants from life is often mealy the will to try it and the faith to believe that it is possible."

~ Richard  De Vos

Friday, November 30, 2012

Thursday, November 29, 2012

Does the S word come before the W one in life?

All that glitters is not gold
All that glitters is not gold... and people often head toward what they think is easier to obtain.  

Just remember  -->

" The dictionary is the only place where success comes before work!"

Vince Lombardi

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Monday, November 26, 2012

Is it DONE yet?

"Approach the start of each day with something in mind and the day with one word....


~ Unknown

Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Oh what a coincidence this is!

Coincidence - it is Gods way of remaining anonymous.

~ Albert Einstein.

Just a little sentiment

Selfishness must always be forgiven you know, because there is no hope for a cure.

~ Jane Austin